7AM fitness clients are high achievers! We’re warming up in the dark and seeing our day take shape before the sun comes up.
Holiday socializing may have overflowed into the work week and made these early workouts painful. One of my high achiever’s responded to feeling over-done by over-doing some more!
Did she believe that overriding her body’s exhaustion would make her stronger?
As her trainer, I had to help her decelerate and work with willingness rather than will. The willingness to listen rather than demand; and recognize that muscle failure is not the same thing as physical exhaustion. Muscle failure challenges a restored muscle to full capacity—till it fails. Physical exhaustion is an unrestored muscle.
Fitness resolutions need to abide by the same willingness; listen and discern between physical exhaustion and muscle failure!
Meet limitations anew each day by being present. Presence offers truth to your strength training that is both empowering and humbling.
Empowering because you experience your limitations from a place of respect. Meeting your limits, not beating your last performance, is the definition of self-love. Overriding your limits is the definition of self-betrayal.
Humbling because it’s a “real” exchange. Not with what you can and can’t do, but with what you’re willing or not willing to do.
My client was willing to exhaust herself further, escalate her body’s tension and beat up her self-worth over how heavy a dumbbell was and how hard she could drive herself. The question becomes, are you willing to sacrifice yourself—your wellbeing—to feed what you think “should be” versus what actually is.
Stop thinking and feel! Train for relaxed strength, and leave the tension of self-betrayal in 2019!